Tuesday, October 30, 2012


A photo...Now that's a first.

I spent a lot of time today on my drive home thinking about how much I miss soccer.  After the Duke vs San Diego game I attended back in September I saw this opportunity for a photo and I thought it was a very good one to take.

While at the game I was sad that I wasn't really playing soccer.  I missed the game.  I missed the practices and games.

It felt like life had occurred in such away that there was a barrier or a fence that was blocking me from getting on to the field and enjoying the game.  So this photo, is a favorite of mine because it's for all of those people who wish they could play the game and be on the field, but can't for whatever reason. 

Friday, October 26, 2012

Add this to your bucket list...

I recently cursed at a football player...and not from the sidelines, in person.  He was a linebacker, although, a skinny one. 

How many people can say they cursed at a football player? 

Bad day and not following directions and trying to be an idiot in study hall lead to a curse word just flying out of my mouth. 

I think it may have worked and got his attention. 

I don't recommend cursing at football players though.  You will usually get your ass kicked.

500

Well I need to talk a little bit about Coach.  I think it's important he gets his due, and that I say something reflecting back on what I have learned from him. 

The amount I have learned about soccer is unbelieveable.  I still don't know much, but I know so much more than when I first started.  One of his first assignments for me was keeping track of passes completed at a game.  I was so new to the game of soccer that I wasn't sure what he meant.  Did it count if we touched the ball but lost it right away?  Now I know better.  I can watch games and know if we are playing well or not.  I understand nuances better. 

Through him and his program I learned a lot about soccer basics and fundamentals.  I really get the game a lot better than before.  I may not be able to explain it, but I have learned a lot.

Coach affected me in two ways more than anything else though.  I learned the importance of balance and academics.  Coach always did a great job of making sure that soccer didn't run the lives of his players or staff.  There was a sense of balance and that other things are important in life besides just soccer.  For me, I make sure I always find time to work out.  As I left, that's what Coach was most happy with me for.  He was happy that I got fit.   

The thing that I think Lenny should get the most credit for is the culture that has been created around academics.  I can tell academics is genuinely important to him.  It's always comes up with recruits, especially early on in his conversations with them.  It's also always the first question he asks in every meeting it seems.  Coach understands that his players are student-athletes.  I love that he allows players to miss practice if they have an exam that they need to get prepared for.  Soccer is important to him, but the growth of his players  academically and personally through college and beyond is very important to him.  There is no coach that I have observed in college athletics yet that seems to genuinely care as much about academics as Lenny.  I had a 4.0 my last two semesters of grad school, and I am not sure if I would have completed that if it wasn't for the culture of the team to do well in school.  The fact that the team studied hard, and that coach expected everyone to actually trickled down to me.  I felt pressure to do well and was motivated to do well. 

Coach is also a great story teller.  It's something that I think he hides a little too much from view.  When he gets going and talking about soccer, or Greece, it's really fascinating.  When players get to hear these stories they are lucky, and they often enjoy them. 

I remember him describing fishing at home as a boy in Greece.  He was talking about how the fisherman would row out to sea and fish.  I think he mentioned putting a line with 50-100 hooks on it and catching all these fish.  I was impressed, and didn't learn of his enjoyment of fishing until right before I left. 

I also love that coach, at whatever age he is, still plays the game of soccer.  That's a testament to his love of the game, and his ability to stay fit.  I love the game of soccer because of his program and teams and I hope that I can still play and enjoy the game at his age. 

500 wins is quite an accomplishment.  Not that many basketball coaches have that many wins!  In soccer it's even more impressive.  I am happy for coach. 

Everything I did in my time with the team was to geared toward helping the team succeed.  That meant not only the players, but Lenny.  I really wanted him to get the National Championship that he deserves.  That motivated me then, and I hope he gets it now and in the future.

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Dale Jr. Concussion

I was thinking about attending the NASCAR race at Charlotte Motor Speedway on Saturday but I didn't once I found out that Dale Earnhardt Jr. wouldn't be racing because of a concussion. 

Junior, as he would be referred to by North Carolinians or NASCAR fans, is not my favorite driver, Jeff Gordon is, but is probably my second favorite now.  Funny because I used to hate Jr.   I didn't want to go to a race without him racing in it.  What fun would that be?

Jr. sat out because of a concussion.  He did this in the middle of his sports playoffs.   Some may question whether his father would have sat out.  His father may have raced with a concussion. 

I am glad Jr. did not.  As much as it sucked that he didn't race, I understand just how devastating concussions can be, and I think it's a good thing that people are being very careful with them. 

My family has been effected by them.  One of my cousins has yet to recover from a brain injury he suffered in a car accident...and he was just about to get a doctorate from MIT.  He can no longer really function.  I haven't heard from him in years now.  All I have heard is that he basically sits in a dark house. 

My great aunt hit her head when she slipped in the bathroom at 96 years old.  She got a concussion and started to forget things that she never used too, like eating.  She would sometimes forget to do that.  Although, she did have amazing coordination.

It's important that everyone understands the dangers associated with brain injuries.  When a famous NASCAR driver takes time off from racing it helps underscore the importance of taking care of concussions.   

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Strange Dutch Sport

Check out this Dutch Sport. 

Much more entertaining than their soccer team that didn't show up to Euro 2012.

http://espn.go.com/video/clip?id=8482871&categoryid=2378529

Sunday, October 7, 2012

If you are a nerd like me...

I love history.  I love U.S. History and I love sports. 

I happened to enjoy watching this program on Jesse Owens. 

Long, but interesting and educational. 

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/films/owens/player/

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Never do this again...

Applying for jobs taught me the need to network and keep gaining experience.  I love working with athletes but also enjoy the fast paced action that makes up running events.  I couldn't land an interview for an operations or event management position so I did what I could to find a chance to do get more experience.  I preferred to do this in a sport that I enjoy but have no experience in, motorsports.  It's big down here in North Carolina.  I talked to a friend who know someone and I got in contact with them about helping out.

My phone conversations with the person I was going to help were a little suspect.  Seemed to have no energy or enthusiasm in his voice, and his accent was thick and hard to understand over the phone.  It was like trying to figure out what the words in Psy Psy Gangam Style meant.  I just said, sure sounds good, I will get back to you.

A little concerned by his lack of enthusiasm or plan for my help I had someone vouch for him first.  They vouched so I decided, well what the heck, let's give this a try.

The ride to this place was interesting.  I got my directions on my IPhone.  They started out great.  It followed signs to the race track so I decided I could trust it.  I needed to trust it since I was in "Real North Carolina" now.  The places outside of the big cities.  The places where I have been told it means something slightly different when you say the word "Yankee."  Your not a fan of the baseball team if you catch my drift.  I start wondering on less traveled roads.  I then get to a residential neighborhood (of trailers) and get to a dead end road without driving lines.  This concerns me.

But my IPhone tells me to continue onto a gravel road, that looks like a driveway.

FUCK this is a driveway.  FUCK I am a Yankee.  FUCK, I see the speedway in the distance, and no I can't go through the farm field to get there Google Maps.

Let's hit reverse.

FUCK it's not in gear.  FUCK these people are going to come out of their trailer, ask me why I am in their driveway, and take my money and shoot me once they find out I am a Catholic Connecticut Yankee.

Please dear god, get in gear.  Thank you.  I get the heck out of there quickly.  I use the map on google, without directions, to find the speedway, somehow.     

I showed up to the track thirty minutes early and saw some cars practicing.  It was cool, especially watching a few cars slide a little through the turns.  I called the person I was supposed to meet and well, they said they were running an hour or so behind and that I should just go up to the women at the table by the white fence.  I ran up there and said that I was here to help.  "Well we don't have anything to really do."  So I just waited for the person I spoke to, to arrive and meet him and get going.

Six O'Clock and still no one.  6:30...still doing nothing. During this time I found out that there was no race tonight, just the rodeo.  I thought both events would be happening at once.  Instead it would just be the rodeo.   I started to see some of the Bull Riders and Cowgirls show up.  The entertainers shall we say.  I must admit, the Cowgirls, or atleast the girls they were arriving with were much, much, much better looking than I had expected.  The Bull Riders were much, much, much more country than I had expected.  Many were smoking cigarettes.  I am sure others were dipping tobacco.  I've already learned that it might not be gum these people are chewing down here.  The Bull Riders came together, like poor college students crammed into cars, only probably minus the college part.  

7:00 guy shows up that looks like could be the person I spoke too over the phone.  He then proceeds to be stressed out and cursing at a few workers.  Not sure who was right and who was wrong, but it wasn't a wonderful impression.    

Looks like I picked a great day to volunteer.

The person who cursed out workers.  Probably, said the F-word five times, was indeed the person I spoke over the phone with.  I finally meet him and he just shakes my hand.  We road in a gator to the Rodeo.  I figured maybe I'd start to do something then.  But I didn't.  I thought maybe I would follow him around and shadow him atleast, but no offer to do that was extended.

Then I saw him down a beer.  The event hadn't even started yet.  I was quite confused.  I've known about workers downing a beer or two at sporting events AFTER the event, but never before, and never when they were in charge of the facility.  Only after the beer did I get to speak with the guy.

I learned that they tore up middle of the go-cart track to make room for the rodeo.  The speedway paid the rodeo to put on the performance.  The posts and set-up was done by the rodeo people.  There were also EMT on standby.  I might have actually had an ambulance, but that's just me.

Speaking to this person at the event and shadowing him was much more difficult and boring then I had imagined.  I almost never spoke to the guy.  I could have had better conversation with a supermodel if I started with the corniest line ever "how much does a Polar Bear weigh?"

I spent the entire event observing things.  Rodeo is part bull riding, barrel racing and other different things as well.  It's also part marketing.  The Rodeo clown and MC work together with music to dance and liven things up.  Kids got a chance to ride sheep.  The event was well run. 

I wasn't quite sure what to expect in terms of the people I would run into.  I'd heard stories about some people from this county from my Aunt, who was a doctor there.  I knew they might be a little different.  I knew they certainly weren't going to any Al Sharpton for President rallies. 

There were a lot of characters out of King of the Hill or other movies featuring country living.  Maybe a Marlboro man or too as well.  Fans could choose to bring their Pick-Up of choice and watch from ring side on their truck beds.  You got the sense at this event that it was a big deal if you owned a pick-up truck that could tow a mountain and also drive over them as well.  Having one rear tire was never enough.  These people would have laughed had you owned a Ferrari or luxury car.  Why own one of those when you could own a big old pick-up.

I felt really out of place, especially in my Nike.  I saw one other person with a piece of Nike Apparel on.  I honestly saw more people with a confederate flag on their clothes than a swoosh.  I looked out of place and it was at this point that I could say that there is a difference between a southern country boy and a New England person who likes the country.  I'm a New Englander who likes the country (and auto racing).  I am not a Southern Country Boy who wears a Remington sweat shirt and enjoys riding around in golf carts drinking beer and smoking cigarettes.  There were certainly plenty of people doing that.  Also should note that many people had untrimmed beards and had that rugged country look.       

All in all this was quite an experience, and probably not worth repeating.  I would give the guy I was supposed to help another chance because I do have interest in helping out at a race...and I realize the importance of making contacts, gaining experience and doing new things, but all in all I don't need to repeat a day like yesterday for a bit.

I still enjoy auto-racing and would still like to help and see how everything comes together event wise, but I am open to trying at a place like say, Lime Rock, where people might be more New England Country than Southern Boy Country.    Last night was a little culture shock. 

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

I won't post my rant

I won't post my rant on needing to be smart with money because I just don't think I should talk about money. 

I don't understand scooters, $170 shoes, and all sorts of expenses.  Then again people could come up with a list of things they think I don't need if they looked at how I spend money on my wants. 

Different people have different priorities.  That's fine.  One priority I have is to save and invest in my future more than spending on wants right now. 

One priority athletes should make is to watch ESPN's 30 for 30 about how pro athletes lost all their millions. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NIuG_Kn06E&feature=relmfu

In the real world you need to keep track of everything that comes in and goes out and you need to budget for what you need now and in the future to figure out what nice things you can afford to do for yourself, without putting yourself through the hell of going bankrupt.

Should I buy that expensive pair of shoes or should I put money away for a house or washer and dryer one day?

I am blessed to have grown up with the values that my grandmother learned from living through the Great Depression.  Those values have been instilled in me.  Don't be wasteful, be resourceful, work hard and be smart with money. 

The tradition in my family is to eat cake and ice cream off of a special plate that has been passed down.  On it this plate it has a saying "For age and want, save while you may.  For no morning sun lasts all the day."  I'm lucky to have grown up with these values.   

That's not to say not to spend money.  It is to say, spend it wisely and plan how you want to spend it compared to your goals in life. 

(One reason I made a bucket list is that it creates a set of objectives and goals to work towards.  It helps make sure you plan both the time and money necessary to do the things you want to do in life) 

I hope people are smart with money, because it's sad to see how many people aren't good with it, and the trouble being bad with it can get them in. 

Come up with the things you care most about in life and start to figure out how you are going to pay for it.  You will start to weigh buying things you want now with things you want in the future.  

Do I want to spend an extra $5,000 to buy a BMW or do I want to make sure my child goes to college?