Do you need to be a jerk?

Interesting thought that someone had about having to be a jerk in order to be really successful as a coach.

I think there is a lot of truth to that.

In order to be a good coach or a good leader you have to keep everyone's eye on the goal. Everything you do is about reaching that goal. Every decision from really important ones to the pictures on the wall all have to do with the goal you have in mind.

Part of this is demanding of others. You have to be able to demand from others in order to be a great leader. You have to be able to make a hard decision and cut an employee. You have to set demands on them for them to complete or face consequences.

It's the tough part of leadership for nice people. But I think it's necessary. You can't let your emotions get the best of you when it comes to achieving your goals.